Client Intake/Consent Form
All information is held with strictest confidence. At no given point the information is disclosed or shared without client’s written consent. You may choose to skip answering any question you feel impinges on personal information you do not wish to disclose.
IMPORTANT PLEASE NOTE:
Completing this form acts as an authorisation by you to Rubens Abreu MT and that you acknowledge you fully understand the sensual and erotic nature of the massage service.
Do you have any general questions before booking?
Please use the contact form below to be in touch!
What does a sensual massage involve?
A sensual massage is an intimate body to body experience designed to engage and arouse the whole body and mind through the use of physical touch and seductive stimulation. It is a full body head to toe massage with the option to include the clitoris, the vagina and the vulva as a whole. It is designed to help you get to the deepest levels of relaxation and pleasure, tailoring to what you feel comfortable with and what you prefer.
Do I need to do anything before the massage?
How to make a booking?
You must submit client intake/consent form in order to make a booking, then we can schedule a free 15min call so we can discuss your motivations, concerns and any questions you may want to ask. We then proceed to make a booking. If you have any concerns or questions about the booking process please send me an email to discuss.
What should I expect from a session?
Assuming we already had our free 15mins consultation call, I still like to have a quick conversation over some tea or water before starting the massage. This way we can connect and I can learn a little more about yourself and anything new you would like to ask and discuss. We then proceed to the “connection meditation” practice so we can further connect, and then we start the massage. After there is time for feedback and shower.
Do you do incalls or outcalls?
I do both. I can see clients in East London or I can bring the massage bed for outcalls with an additional cost for a cab both ways plus time for travel (extra £50 for all packages London area). I see couples as well, in case you would like to watch her receiving a massage. However, the massage is only performed on female and if you come to me as a couple for the first time I ask for a copy of your ID for safety and identification purpose. I also provide one on one training.
What is the connection meditation?
Before we start the massage I introduce a practice called “connection meditation” and this is also a time where we discuss any intentions we may want to bring to the massage. We both spend some time looking at each other’s eyes. Eyes are the gateway to our true selves and soul and it allows the therapist and the client to truly see themselves for who they are without the pressure to pretend or to try to be someone else. After that each person takes turns with their eyes closed and uses physical touch to explore each other’s body, but respecting the boundaries of each person. It is all discussed before we start and it is done with love, respect and kindness. This is crucial before the massage as it creates a sense of trust, connection and gratitude which allow the client to feel more open and to surrender to the experience.
What are the contraindications?
Massage treatment is non-invasive, relaxing and natural. It is therefore generally considered a safe treatment for most people.
However, there are three types of contraindication:
1. TOTAL, when massage should not be performed at all
2. LOCAL, when massage can be performed but not over the contraindicated areas.
3. MEDICAL, when massage can only be performed once medical permission has been granted.
When you have any of these conditions, please do not book a massage:
• Contagious diseases, including any cold or flu, no matter how mild it may seem
• Under the influence of drugs or alcohol-including prescription pain medication
• Recent operations or acute injuries
• Skin diseases
2. Local Contraindications
The therapist can massage but not over any areas affected by:
• Varicose veins
• Undiagnosed lumps or bumps
• Undiagnosed pain
• Inflammation, including arthritis
3. Medical Contraindications
Massage can only take place once it has been approved before your session in writing by your Physician.
• Cardio-vascular conditions (thrombosis, phlebitis, hypertension, heart conditions)
• Any condition already being treated by a medical practitioner
• Psoriasis or eczem
• High blood pressure
• Nervous or psychotic conditions
• Heart problems, angina, those with pacemakers
• Bell’s palsy, trapped or pinched nerves
• Gynaecological infections
Does a contraindication mean that treatment cannot take place?
Not always. In fact, massage can be very therapeutic for many medical conditions. However, in the above cases it is best to have advice from your physician. Massage therapists, unless they are also qualified doctors, may not, under law, attempt to diagnose a condition.
If you have further questions or concerns, please contact your physician.
Tantric Massage or Sensual Massage?
What I offer is not Tantric massage, however it has elements of tantra such as the connection meditation and I have done a 7 days course with “Tantric Journey” and have completed the certificate level 1a. What I offer is Sensual massage which has its focus on pleasure whereas Tantric massage focus a lot more on removing tension and traumas in the body as well as pleasure. However I do accomodate if clients are looking for a mix of deep tissue and sensual touch.
What are the cancellation terms?
Once a session is agreed, you are asked for a deposit in order to confirm booking and you are welcome to pay the full amount if you wish. THE TOTAL AMOUNT MUST BE PAID 24hrs BEFORE THE SESSION TIME. IF YOU NEED TO CANCEL THE SESSION THEREAFTER, the following cancellation terms apply:
DEPOSIT IS NOT REFUNDABLE. IF YOU CANCEL BEFORE 72hrs you may postpone the session within 4 weeks of the initial session date otherwise a new deposit is required. IF YOU CANCEL AFTER 72hrs from the session a new deposit is required. IF YOU CANCEL WITHIN 24hrs ANOTHER FULL AMOUNT IS REQUIRED FOR A NEW SESSION.
Please do not be late, once session is paid you agree with the time scheduled, so if you are late for the appointment that will be deducted out of your session time.
By paying for the session, you indicate your agreement to these cancellation terms. If you have any questions about these terms please discuss them before paying the deposit.
Have more questions?
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